Welcome to Jacob's Bar Mitzvah Website

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You may be asking yourself..."What is a bar mitzvah anyway?"

“Bar mitzvah” means “son of the commandment.” This day marks a young man’s transition into adulthood within the Jewish community. A bar mitzvah symbolizes his willingness to become responsible for performing mitzvot (good deeds) – the duties of Jewish life. Following are some FAQs. (But if you have more questions, click "CONTACT US.")

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But first...what about COVID?

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What will happen at the service?  What do I do there?

Jacob has spent a ton of time over several years studying and learning how to read Hebrew. At his bar mitzvah, he will be called up to read from the Torah for the first time. The rabbi will lead the service with Jacob, and will tell when you should stand and sit. (Please see EVENTS for more on service logistics.)

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How long will it go? Will there be snacks?

We expect the service to run about 1hr 15 long. Usually, kids are paired with one another (b’nai mitzvah) at services. For precautionary reasons, services are currently running solo and back-to-back. Therefore, the Temple will not be providing a traditional Oneg Shabbat (refreshments) after the service. But we will feed you well at the party that night!

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What should I wear?

To the service: wear what you might wear to any religious service--a step nicer than what you might wear to school. Think slacks and button down or suit and tie; skirt or dress; etc.  

To the party: cocktail/festive wear. Be ready to dance!

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Can I take pictures or text my friends?

Sorry, cell phones **must** be turned off in the sanctuary. We promise there will be plenty of chances for photos at the party though. 

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What are people wearing on their heads?

Traditionally, men and boys wear a kippah (yarmulke in Yiddish) in the sanctuary as a sign of respect. Sometimes women wear them as well.  We will have them available for you to wear (Jewish or not), but they are optional.